Thanksgiving is a screwy holiday that I actually really
like. I like the cooking, and the fuss, and the football, and especially the
pie. But as an historian, I am also very aware that America’s fantasized “Pilgrim-Indian
Thanksgiving Feast” is far removed from the reality of 17th century
life in what is now known as Massachusetts. To put it bluntly, this is not your
kindergarten hand-turkey story.
There are many articles out there that can break down the
real story of “The First Thanksgiving,” but let me give you an abbreviated version:
there had previously been feasts of thanksgiving in St. Augustine and in
Jamestown; Squanto (Tisquantum) had previously been enslaved by Europeans; the
Pilgrims settled in an abandoned Wampanoag village whose inhabitants had been
killed off by European diseases; the “Indians”
were not one monolithic group, but several rival nations competing for
territory & trade; there had already been attacks by the English on the
Narragansett.
In essence, the Pilgrims along with their Wampanoag,
Narragansett and Pequot neighbors all lived a precarious existence in Eastern
Massachusetts built on negotiating alliances, trade deals and territorial
claims, against all the others. The story we like involves two of these groups
coming together to celebrate a successful harvest, and it’s a lovely story, but
it’s more myth than reality. Within a generation, the Pilgrim and Puritan
settlers would fight several devastating wars against all of these native
peoples and launch a campaign of conquest that led to nationwide genocide.
So does Thanksgiving mean anything at all? To me, identifying
it as a myth does not diminish its importance. In fact, I think it’s just the
opposite. The fact that we make a big fuss over this national myth of
Thanksgiving tells us how we want to think of ourselves, what we want to
believe about ourselves. You can say that it’s (literally) white washed
history, but I think it’s more than that. It tells us who we want to be … We
want to be those people who sat down with folks who were different from us, and
shared a meal. The people who acknowledged with thanks all the ways in which “others”
had enriched our lives. We want to be the people who live in openness and
gratitude, rather than in fear.
And I think we need that myth now more than ever. We are now
living in a precarious time, a time in which rival groups are being pitted
against each other for resources and there are people stoking the fires of
hatred and violence. We need Thanksgiving. Not so you can talk sense into your
crazy Trump-supporting relatives, or so you can drown your sorrows in a
tryptophan-induced haze. No, we need Thanksgiving because we need to remember
how the Wampanoag taught the Pilgrims to survive, to plant, to harvest.
The Pilgrims could have a feast because the Wampanoag had
taught them to grow the Three Sisters – corn, beans and squash. These plants
thrive when grown together, each
complimenting the others, each contributing to the successful growth of the
others. Together, they also contain all of the basic nutrients necessary for
human survival.
And this is what we need to do … to use our individual
strengths in service to each other and to the survival of our country. That is
where we will find strength, support, growth, stamina, survival, and ultimately
thanksgiving.
At the Pilgrims’ Thanksgiving, they had no crystal ball. We
don’t either, but we know enough to know that there are dangerous times ahead. It
is now that we need to cling to that myth of Thanksgiving, because it is now
that we can give it meaning. Forget the hand turkeys … it’s time to extend a
hand of peace, of solidarity, of friendship.
And we can start by standing with the Standing Rock Sioux …